Last night I had the chance to drive Meghan to our church's VBS. It was just the two of us. One way is forty minutes. Meghan was talking almost all of the time.
Let me tell you what a joy my oldest is, especially when given the chance to be with an adult one-on-one. We talked about all sorts of things. I want to share a few, and please know that I am not trying to brag, I was just so amused and blessed by our time together.
On the way there, I was asking her about her group leader at VBS (though I knew who she was). She explained to me that it was Elizabeth, Liz, or Lizzie. She was amazed that she had three names. She was able to tell me which was her full name, and explained that Liz and Lizzie are nicknames. Then she proceeded to tell me she wanted a nickname. Then she told me she had two. Meg and Han. (We always call her Meghan. Always. BUT her Aunt Amy and her coach for tee ball both call her Meg on occasion.) I did explain to her that Han might confuse some people.
On the way home, she was telling me about the story of Lazarus and how Jesus brought him back to life which was the Bible story at VBS. I brought up that it was one of Jesus' miracles. Then she went on to tell me about some other miracles including Peter making Tabitha come back to life. When I asked her how she knew that miracle, she told me she read it in
God's Message for Children, the Bible that she spends a great deal of time reading. (I am constantly amazed by her comprehension.)
Then she asked me to tell her a story. I don't even remember what story I told her. Then she asked for the story of her, Evan, and Esther when they were little. She loves to hear about herself when she was a baby, though I like to begin it before they were born. After I told the story, she piped in about Lucy, our cat, who I had left out of the story.
A good amount of time in the car was spent on math problems, all at her request. It's fun for her! She loves to ask us what X+X equals. Or X+X+X+X. She knows some basic addition facts. She also knows how to use her fingers to help her find sums. It was so funny when I asked her what 5+6 equaled. She told me she only had ten fingers. After some basic facts, she started creating word problems for me to solve. Which encouraged me to create some for her, too.
By the time we arrived home I was feeling encouraged as a mom. Despite her immaturity, at times, she is quite knowledgeable and articulate. And though she still cries with little provocation, she has come so far in the past year and a half.